We now come to the point where Abram knows that Lott has to go and he is now finally where God has called him to be. Abram used wisdom in order to avoid anymore strife between him & his nephew Lott. Sometimes it is a good thing to separate yourself unto the Lord in order to hear what the Spirit is saying to us. Gods word has given us so many verses in what our response should be to strife & conflict. For Abram he is finally where God had wanted him to be all along (away from family influence). As we learn to hear Him & then obey His calling we will find ourselves right where we need to be.